WildChild says: Right, there's this girl that I see at the station every morning. She's kind of fit - not to everyone's taste, but I like her. Anyway, I want to pursuade her to make mad passionate love to me. How can I acheive this without any relationshipping involved. It's not like I want to get to know her or anything - on the contrary, I'm not interested in her beyond the fact I feel a bit attracted to her. WildChild says: almost there Jules, you can do it Jules says: you can't. no woman in her right mind is going to agree to go off with a complete stranger for meaningless sex, particularly if she's sober and she got chatted up on a station platform. I would be completely creeped out if some bloke came up to me and expected me to go off somewhere for a shag in the middle of the day. if it turned out she was up for it then she's probably a bunny boiler.